need advice about testing

By 8977 on Mon, 02-20-12, 06:14

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Been married 17yrs, getting divorced. Been separated a year but haven't had sex in 2yrs with him. My best friend and I have been friends for 3yrs. 2 weeks ago at a convention we make love. We used a condom but not the whole time. His last relationship was rocky (her cheating) and for that he did get tested 6 months ago. It was negative. He is going for his follow up test tomorow. He seems to think everything is going to be fine becuz of the last test but I'm really nervous. The other thing...just found out his ex is pregnant by some guy...if she gets prenatal care won't they test her? (I had all my kids in the military and they tested, wasn't sure about civilain). I have a gyn apointment wed. Should I ask to be tested? Any advice wuld be great.

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By CK on Wed, 02-22-12, 05:24

Don't get yourself in a panic, get tested and next time, condom the WHOLE TIME-EVERYTIME!!!!!!!!

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By 8977 on Mon, 02-27-12, 08:59

Ok so I went to obgyn appt last Weds. I did ask to have blood work done and they drew it. got a post card that said pap test was good but I got a message to call doc. I thot it was an old message to remind me of that appt. I just got off the phone and the nurse said my doctors asst had called. Crap if it was bad news wouldn't the doctor call me? And wouldn't they be calling my cell and wrk number to get a hold of me??? Now I'm sitting in car waiting for the asst to call me.... my friend donated blood last week to. At his appt they told him not to worry because of the negative results from the last test. He's only been with me and well I've only been with him after 2yrs of no contact.....anyway any thots from anyone??

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By CK on Mon, 02-27-12, 12:20

Take a deep breath-I would assume if it was urgent they would have called your cell.

Let me know how this turns out.

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By 8977 on Mon, 02-27-12, 20:30

Well I called back again and got ahold of the asst. She did want to go over results. Everything is negative....but we talked about my friend and his second test results and I should retest in 3-6 months. And what you said...condom....thanks for the support and hope....

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